We did a seminar at church today, and I find it helps me remember to re-hash the information in writing. (Typing is writing, right?) So here are my jumbled-up notes from a really informative and well-read speaker, Dr. Walt Mueller from CPYU.
Technology
As a parent, you can engage with media to be aware instead of engaging for it to guide you
Learn Dual Listening – between the Word and the world – how to discern which of Christ’s riches are need most and how to present them in their best light
Mental health needs in kids are on the rise due in part to the extreme dependence on devices: isolation, depression, anxiety, lack of ability to communicate
Authority and Morality
Our culture's "no authority" leads to "no respect" which leads to "no morality"
Relationships will always be louder than culture.
Age aspiration, age compression, and age extension: beyond the stewardship of your body, but a hyper focus on it, turning to idolatry
Interesting fact: Adult brain activity occurs in the front (reasoning and planning) while adolescent thinking occurs in the center (pleasure and rewards)
Today's culture is expressive individualism – I am the highest authority. “Follow your heart.”
Influence
Control in young kids... influence in older kids
The biggest lie Satan speaks to us and to our kids is... “Did God really say…?"
Look for other trusted adults who will speak the same truths to your children.
Setting your own heart right
Presenting a testimony instead of just instructing (this is what the Lord has done for me...)
